Last night Gab sent me a message in FB. He was apologizing because he felt guilty. Sya naman kasi yung way kung paano nagkakilala si Karl and the girl. At first I was really mad at him. Syempre, when you’re so clouded by an extreme emotion and bad thoughts, you’ll end up putting the blame to other people kahit na wala naman silang kasalanan. Pero yun nga, I realized that it wasn’t really his fault. Because he did not want it to happen or he didn’t even asked them to do it. They are responsible for the choices they’ve made so it was really not a big deal for me.
Ang gusto ko lang naman sabihin eh hindi ako galit sa mga tao. Like Dequi or Gab. Kasi it’s not their responsibility to say to Karl kung ano yung mali o tama. Kasi for God’s sake matatanda na kami. Alam na namin ang tama sa mali. It’s a matter of the choices we make, the decisions we make or what.
In short, e wag tangang magiging blinded by the emotions we are feeling. We should not make any decisions when we’re feeling an extreme emotion nor make a move kapag alam na may jowa na. Pwede namang makipag break, tapos magpahinga, tapos tsaka na gumora sa landi diba? At in short, wag sumira ng relasyon. It takes a lot of effort, time, understanding, patience and everything in between to make a relationship work. It takes a lot of investment to build a relationship. But it only takes one person to ruin a 3 year relationship. Or so.
So the bottomline is, walang matibay na relasyon, sa isang.. ummm…… babae?
Bye.
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